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Epilepsy Foundation of East Tennessee

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The Epilepsy Foundation of East Tennessee had its annual Mud Volleyball Tournament. Feel free to contribute in any way be it donations, volunteering, education, etc…

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July 30, 2011 at 2:14 pm

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A Summer of Contentment

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I’ve just spent seven weeks in North Carolina working as a counselor at a summer camp. While the obvious was to make money which is a big help for one who doesn’t make much, the greater experience was getting to minister and serve the youngsters who were doing everything from camping, hiking, canoeing, learning about plants and Bible studies. This experience has further confirmed my decision to go into coaching and confirmed my reasons for this calling were the right reasons: in an age of big money and win-win mentality, my reasons are rooted in a more humble approach and that is to serve others and be a disciple for Christ. Football is simply one avenue among many.

I enjoyed playing baseball and football as a youngster, but never was going to be even big enough or talented enough to even become a starter on the high school team.  It was unfortunate that I would miss out on those experiences from the morning dew of August practices to making it to a championship game.  Perhaps God is using coaching as the approach to fulfill other areas of my life, but most importantly I am serving and witnessing to others and glorifying God.

No one knows the future, but I’m feeling the best I have in about ten years in regards to my career/job direction. A number of other careers/jobs haven’t panned out. But those experiences can be applied to coaching especially my background in media/PR, politics and being able to handle the many personalities in a large organization.  Actually coaching is a calling. You either have a passion for it or don’t.  You don’t view the long hours, pressure and tasks as just another job.  Many people love to watch sports, but only a few are willing to deal with the challenges that coaching involves. At least now, I know for certain this is the avenue I should have been on 10-15 years ago. Maybe in a certain way, I already was.

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July 20, 2011 at 11:52 am

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Discernment In The World At Large

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“It is the standards of civilized men not of beasts that must be kept in mind, for it is good men not beasts who are capable of real courage. Those like the Spartans who concentrate on the one and ignore the other in their education turn men into machines and in devoting themselves to one single aspect of city’s life, end up making them inferior even in that.” Aristotle

My struggle in life hasn’t been alcohol, drugs or other issues of the flesh. My struggle has being able to reconcile the acknowledgement and knowledge of deeper truths in the universe with my own physical realities. I desire to live in another century or to do other things, but my physical abilities and size don’t measure up. My dreams to be a baseball or football player were pretty much over before it even began. I still however hold out that someday I will be able to make a few movies even if I don’t reach the levels of Alfred Hitchcock or Darryl Zanuck.

Many Christians struggle or should struggle with the realities of the world they are in. In a certain way, our bodies should feel as if we are in a prison.  We are supposed to be the salt of the earth as we boldly proclaim the gospel.  I think Americans have become prudish even hypocritical especially when it comes to female sexuality. But this doesn’t come from moral discernment, merely their own legalistic way of looking at life. I mean we don’t ever complain about scantly clad men parading around. I have even had women tell me that it is okay for them to watch (even as they condemn women doing the same thing) because they “aren’t tempted in the same way men are”. Really? But that is just my observation.  I’m not hung up on people’s sexual choices even if I don’t care for it myself. I’ve been a fan of mud/oil wrestling and general WAM since childhood. I never considered playing in mud or having pie fights to be sinful behavior. Yet, some people insist that it is even as they throw down big money gambling or watching boxing on PPV.

Violence on the other hand has far-reaching consequences.  I used to watch wrestling, big action movies, played video games as a kid and what not. However, I have moved away from the violence on TV whether real or perceived. I will not watch hockey “fights”, UFC or cock/dogfighting. I question the use of violence in sports in general. I am not legalistic about it, but I do discern and draw my own limits. I do like a good action movie, but not if CGI fills in for a poor story. I’ve eaten my fair share of beef, chicken and pork in my lifetime. Yet over the past ten years, as I became aware (although part of me already knew that) of the practices on industrial farms, I have reduced my meat consumption and say that I’m “85% vegetarian”. Is it right to cause another living being to suffer and lose their life just for my pleasure? Generally it is immoral.

Life is not about rules and regulations like the Sadduccees. It is about making  choices. Since I aspire to get into coaching, I’ve been giving a great deal of thought to the physical aspects of sports and particularly the crowd mentality that at times wants more violence. I have decided that ultimately I have to stand on my own two feet. I will not coach players on how to injure opponents, instruct a pitcher to throw a ball at a batter’s head or encourage a player to fight or hit another player as some payback. The world measures a man or woman in a totally different way than Christ. Walking in Christ means being the salt of the Earth, not sugar.

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July 2, 2011 at 5:30 pm

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